Every year, we set goals, review performance, and plan ahead, but how often do we truly ask for what we deserve? As a professional woman, you may have found yourself working hard, hitting milestones, and still feeling like opportunities pass you by. The truth is, sometimes the most significant opportunities don’t come to us naturally — they have to be asked for. And while it may seem daunting to ask for a bold, audacious opportunity, it’s often the catalyst that propels your career forward in ways you never expected.
This year, let’s make sure you’re prepared to seize the moment and confidently ask for the opportunities that will help you grow and shine.
The annual work cycle is a perfect time to reflect on your growth, celebrate achievements, and evaluate what’s next. It’s a rhythm that naturally invites opportunities for self-assessment. It also presents a window for you to strategically ask for what you want next in your career. The end-of-year performance reviews, goal-setting meetings, and planning sessions are pivotal moments when you can step up and advocate for yourself. Recognizing these moments and using them to your advantage can give you the momentum to take your career to new heights.
However, just showing up isn't enough — you need to seize these opportunities with boldness and confidence. By aligning your goals with the annual work cycle, you can better position yourself to ask for that audacious opportunity you've been eyeing.
Now that you know why asking for that audacious opportunity is crucial for your growth, it’s time to break it down into actionable steps. Follow these steps to approach the situation with confidence and clarity.
Before you ask for anything, take some time to clearly define what you're truly seeking. Think beyond the small next step — what’s the big, audacious goal that will truly challenge and excite you? Maybe it’s a leadership role, a new area of responsibility, or even a lateral move to build different skills. Whatever it is, don’t be afraid to dream big. When you articulate your goals with clarity, it becomes easier to ask for them with confidence.
Timing is everything when asking for an opportunity. Look for moments that naturally fit, like during your performance review, one-on-one meetings with your boss, or when your team is planning ahead. It’s not just about the calendar — it's about when you’re doing your best work. Have you just finished a successful project or shown you’re ready for more? Choose a time when you have the attention of decision-makers and can make your case confidently.
When you ask for a big opportunity, don’t just make a simple request — tell a story. Talk about your past successes, the skills you bring, and how you've contributed to the team. Show how this opportunity fits perfectly with your strengths and how excited you are for the challenge. A well-told story makes your request feel natural and leaves a lasting impression.
The way you present your question matters. Practice it—whether in front of the mirror, with a mentor, or with a trusted friend. Refine your message, focusing on being clear, concise, and confident. Anticipate possible objections and be ready to address them calmly. When the time comes to deliver your ask, stand tall, speak confidently, and don’t second-guess yourself. You’ve done the work to prepare, now trust in that preparation.
What happens if you’re told “no”? While it can sting at the moment, rejection isn’t the end of the road. Instead of seeing it as a setback, use it as an opportunity to learn and grow. Ask for feedback on what you can improve, and keep building your skills. Remember, many of the most successful leaders faced rejection before they achieved their goals. Keep the momentum going by staying persistent and adaptable.
Asking for an audacious opportunity isn’t easy, but it’s essential for your career growth. By dreaming big, picking the perfect moment, building a compelling story, practicing your task, and not fearing rejection, you’re setting yourself up for success. The annual work cycle is your secret weapon — a built-in time to reflect, ask, and grow.
So, don’t let this year pass without stepping into the bold opportunities you’ve always wanted. Take that first step, and remember that your career is in your hands. Seize the moment, and watch your professional life transform in ways you never thought possible.